presents
The bows get harder to tie each year, wrapping life up into neat little packages is a gift of the young. But no matter, the new year comes just the same, wrapped or not, prettied up or painted over, parceled out or held close in hidden pockets.
We like our second chances, though. New year, new month, new week, new day. The chance to begin again, be better, live more, love more, give more.
We bring our scars and broken bits to the party, and after a while, no one notices. Because what matters is that we are there, standing testament to each other’s existence. My paint is peeling and your paper is torn. My corners are crooked and your ribbon is creased. Packaging, no matter how perfect or pretty, ruined or wrinkled, is not what we offer.
The gift is always inside.
And the bits that poke through, refusing to fit neatly into boxes or hide beneath brightly colored paper, those are always the very best parts.
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Here’s to another year of gifts and smiles, tears and scars, sunshine and puddles.
Here’s to you and to me and to us.
All of us.
Here’s to being here.
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xoxo
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December 31st, 2015 at 9:10 am
But how nicely you’ve packaged this end-of-year ‘gift!’ Another fine essay.
A happy and healthy New Year to Mrs. M and all the Ms.
December 31st, 2015 at 11:38 am
Wishing you miles of smiles.
December 31st, 2015 at 3:42 pm
Here on this last day of a hard year, your presence, wrapped in words, saves me again. I cannot tell you how often I visit here, and my day turns around, from down to up. Thank you.
December 31st, 2015 at 4:07 pm
What a wonderful way to describe all of us lovely packages. 🙂
Happy New Year to you!
December 31st, 2015 at 8:23 pm
You summed life up so eloquently. Happy New Year
January 1st, 2016 at 3:06 pm
Wow! This is a beautiful post. I look forward to coming back often.
January 5th, 2016 at 7:51 am
What a perfect metaphor – I could feel the unyielding bows perfectly..,
January 17th, 2016 at 2:29 am
truly, you writing is a gift. ~