how to be the belle
of sanity’s ball
first, you have to dance
arms flung wide
with hope’s last vestige of abandon
you have to care and not care
at the very same time
drop permission from your vocabulary
throat your laugh and hug the sky
your dress must be free and made of history
your face must be painted with your own experience
(hand-me-downs and borrowed wishes
will be confiscated)
you must wear a ring on every finger
one for each time you pretended to know
the answer to anything
and you must refuse to lick the plate
of shallow dictate
this isn’t about being naked
you can do that well enough on your own
this is about your true colors
the ones you wear when no one else is looking
because exhibitionism does not equal honesty
and besides
it’s your skeleton that always tell the truth
skimming shallow skin and baring marrow bone
but it’s your heart that hears the music
and your sleeve doesn’t have to be fancy
or short or even rolled up
if there’s lace, tear it off
drop the bangles
bare your wrist
and two-step the pattern of your flaws
across the floor we all stand on
close your eyes
listen
we’re all here
the beat cannot beat you
or make you special
we’re all here
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Joining in over at Dverse Poets Pub
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September 27th, 2014 at 9:38 am
love the repetition of we are all here…and so true on the abandon we have to dance with if we are going to fully embrace this taper…
September 27th, 2014 at 11:45 am
there are so many things i want to say to this, but won’t, at least not right out loud, but i will say this: permission is a 4 letter word. i love this and you.
September 27th, 2014 at 12:42 pm
I like the idea of caring and not caring at the same time. & two-stepping the pattern of our flaws across the floor. We all have them! Smiles.
September 27th, 2014 at 12:52 pm
I love the carefree tone of your poem, Kelly. It makes me want to join in that dance. Happy weekend!
September 27th, 2014 at 12:54 pm
I admire the dance and wearing one’s own true colors, dropping permission from your vocabulary, and letting our heart hear the music~ Terrific share Kelly ~ Lovely to see you at OLN~
September 27th, 2014 at 1:04 pm
Wow..i can really relate to this as dance is now my life..but when i dance there is just me and GOD..and no one to answer to but GOD..sometimes people like it..tell me i am awesome..tell me they love me for dance alone..and then there are others who say..why do you do that in public..are you trying to draw attention to yourself..and simply i say i do it for the joy of life..and you my friend may do it free too..but your choice of WILL and never mine….as mine is not choice..it is simply living free..yes but that too is choice of the REAL KIND..not one dictated by the whims of others..who are not me….and as free as they want to be imprisoned or alive…
September 27th, 2014 at 1:09 pm
Oh, this is really, really good and special! I enjoyed this – giving ourselves permission to dance, to be free, to be creative…
September 27th, 2014 at 1:16 pm
that is about truly being who we are…the dance of honesty – and of the beauty that comes with it…
September 27th, 2014 at 1:36 pm
There are clues here for the younger among us about acceptance, i think. I love the first three stanzas and believe they can stand on their own.
September 27th, 2014 at 2:51 pm
This is such a ferocious piece ind its quiet way–I love, love this-and thank you–
September 27th, 2014 at 2:51 pm
So many fine lines here – a waltz of imagination, a samba of sanity, a fandango of color and light. It’s all here. Well said!
September 27th, 2014 at 4:08 pm
As Anthony Quinn said as Zorba, “What, boss, did you say dance?” This incredible piece of yours is celebratory, ribald, lovely, energetic, lusty, honest. Like the line /throat your laugh & hug the sky/ You & Brian both got under the skin & into the bones of the Now today. Your words make me smile, make me forget my aging pain & detractors; for I can still move, can still choose happiness over depression; thanks.
September 27th, 2014 at 5:22 pm
I think that we have to understand the intricacy of that dance we are all part of.. that dance where even the wall-flowers and the jocks are the same… in essence it’s all about us..
September 27th, 2014 at 5:28 pm
I see you dancing
September 27th, 2014 at 6:26 pm
Very strong write – you speak powerfully to modern vanities here.. Inspiring stuff
September 27th, 2014 at 8:19 pm
So true, we’re all here, on the same boat so to speak. We need to shed what’s dishonest, be real, join the true ball. Lovely write.
September 27th, 2014 at 10:22 pm
cool… a dress made of history… isn’t life a dance in itself?
September 28th, 2014 at 2:17 am
wondrous ~
September 28th, 2014 at 2:24 am
I love the message of this poem to be true to yourself
I’m all for truth!
September 28th, 2014 at 4:10 am
Words’ flow mimicked the dance.
September 28th, 2014 at 8:09 am
it’s your skeleton that always tell the truth
skimming shallow skin and baring marrow bone….A great poem, Kelly.
September 28th, 2014 at 1:19 pm
Really great poem. I love the image of the skeleton, and “skimming shallow skin and baring marrow bone.” Well done!
September 28th, 2014 at 3:28 pm
That is one fabulous write. I love the attitude, the cut through the chase behind it.
September 28th, 2014 at 6:22 pm
I love this. Simply. It speaks with a genuine voice and an open heart.
September 28th, 2014 at 8:51 pm
so very very very good.
awesome work.
September 28th, 2014 at 11:55 pm
“exhibitionism does not equal honesty” fabulous line and the whole tone is advisable without being overbearing. One would be quite wise to heed this voice!
September 29th, 2014 at 1:58 pm
wow, a new favorite of mine. I can’t even pick which lines in this because I love them all. Fantastic.
October 6th, 2014 at 7:35 am
Just catching up on some of my reading and so glad I found this one! I can see I’m not alone in my loving this one!