blame it on the heat
you have your chair and i
have mine and sometimes
at night after you’ve
gone to bed and i finally
get around to pulling on
my night owl
i move over and sit
in your chair
to view the world
through your eyes
every so often
i see myself sitting
there
in that other chair
a book of poems
or a baby
in my hands
and remember that
these chairs
have seen the best
and the worst of us
at times merely innocent
bystanders and at others
the only thing keeping
us from tearing holes
in the walls
and then
i put my feet up
and pretend to be you
watching baseball through
half closed lids and
i never get there really
never quite transition
into a sports fan
but who would have thought
a jock
and a poet could share
these two chairs
side by side all these years
worn and tired though
they are still strong and
mostly sturdy
always silent
about those nights
when neither one of
us could tell
the difference
May 29th, 2012 at 9:55 am
Such a lovely verse of life … love the idea of sitting in his chair and viewing the world from that perspective.
May 29th, 2012 at 10:08 am
the heat does wonderful things. xoxo
May 29th, 2012 at 10:23 am
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May 29th, 2012 at 10:25 am
Love this! My better half is the ying to my yang…who could think a tree hugger and a hunter could peacefully co-exist…oh yes…the battles are blazing…and to sit in his spot to see ME thru his eyes always helps me come to understanding. An amazing capture…of a moment, a life and a relationship
May 29th, 2012 at 10:37 am
how beautiful is this………:)
May 29th, 2012 at 10:42 am
Such a touching homage to marriage, how two people can stay side by side despite their differences. Trying to see things through each other’s eyes is crucial, and I love how you did it here. Beautiful!
May 29th, 2012 at 11:56 am
Such a beautiful story of life.
May 29th, 2012 at 12:13 pm
delicious…i love everything about this one…the switching chairs to see a point of view…and the whole last stanza is just beautiful…top notch stuff!~
May 29th, 2012 at 1:04 pm
Love this, I often sit in other chairs to view things through a different perspective. So visual.
May 29th, 2012 at 1:07 pm
Goodness, such beauty and grace in these lives you lovingly paint for us. Intimate, stunning, and real.
May 29th, 2012 at 2:17 pm
Love this, the beauty of trying to figure each other out and then deciding it is ok to just be different.
May 29th, 2012 at 5:15 pm
I love the different perspective from the different chair, awesome. Love this whole piece, actually.
May 29th, 2012 at 2:25 pm
love the sitting on his chair to watch the world through his eyes…and great to find a common ground even though you seem to be quite different…and when you become so one that you can’t tell the difference…that’s awesome
May 29th, 2012 at 2:40 pm
Really fresh take on the differences that unite and divide us in relationships, love the view from the other chair, almost ghost like but very loving and romantic too. Great!
May 29th, 2012 at 3:12 pm
this should be a hallmark card for all of us who have “our chairs” and nightly rituals !!!
May 29th, 2012 at 3:18 pm
This really made me smile and nod in recognition. Great write.
May 29th, 2012 at 3:34 pm
Smile at the end of this one for me, and lovely, consistent and telling use of the metaphor.
May 29th, 2012 at 3:43 pm
This is so lovely. I really enjoyed reading this. Such a simple thing, a chair, and yet it can have so much meaning for us. Pam
May 29th, 2012 at 3:51 pm
beautiful write.. quite touching as well… they say opposites attract, right? smiles
May 29th, 2012 at 4:03 pm
This is a wonderful and artful reflection. Trying to see differently, not being able to do it, really…great commentary on the ambiguity that surrounds at all time–but done in a positive and loving way. I enjoyed this one a great deal.
May 29th, 2012 at 4:13 pm
Love this–it speaks to me of the long-term relationship and its growing together and apart over the years–the chairs act as sentinels over time–really, really a lovely write
May 29th, 2012 at 4:47 pm
“i move over and sit
in your chair
to view the world
through your eyes”…so much love, just beautiful!
May 29th, 2012 at 5:20 pm
Oh this is so gorgeous. To reach a point of being totally comfortable with someone that you know so well and yet, there are still some things you will maybe never know, like, he he feels sitting there half asleep watching his baseball.
Loved this!!! 🙂
May 29th, 2012 at 6:06 pm
This is wonderful verse….the slice of life – trying to the other perspective – The sense of peace, and history … this is a wonderful piece!
May 29th, 2012 at 6:53 pm
I really like this idea of the two chairs a lot. Exceptionally strong from a philosophical/meta stance, especially enjoyed the last 3 stanzas a great deal. Thanks
May 29th, 2012 at 7:47 pm
Lovely perspective upon a long and loving marriage. But I can say from experience that it is also fun when BOTH are poets and baseball fans. Especially THIS year, when the Dodgers are the best team in baseball! LOL
Thanks for this fine read.
May 29th, 2012 at 7:53 pm
Needs to go into the book that I hope you’re working on. Excellent.
And actually something I do every night. I sit in his space. It’s just a feeling I get.
May 29th, 2012 at 8:17 pm
Ahhh… I’ve been slacking on breathing in your words. I need to remember to come here and relax and read your words.
Always wonderful.
May 29th, 2012 at 8:42 pm
We–women vs men–are SO different, in SO many ways. Yet…..
Are we, really?
On the other hand,
where I go…there I am.
Whether it be another chair,
or another land
PEACE!
May 29th, 2012 at 8:52 pm
oh I know those chairs:)
beautiful share…thank you,
Jennifer
May 29th, 2012 at 8:59 pm
This was great – I love the premise of sitting in another’s chair to see their perspective. I think this is perfect. Thanks for writing it.
May 29th, 2012 at 9:10 pm
An amazing write, I love it!!!!!
May 29th, 2012 at 9:33 pm
hats off to you. i couldn’t do it (i’m divorced)
spaceship tanka
May 29th, 2012 at 9:51 pm
The heat can do wonderful things besides make you a sweaty mess. Can you believe it is actually cold here? That is so sad.
May 29th, 2012 at 10:01 pm
Great mood here – of switching chairs – truly seeing the world through someone else’s eyes. One of the hardest things to really and truly do.
May 29th, 2012 at 10:28 pm
Excellent write – loved the use of “sitting in chairs” and “sitting in his chair”! Trying to see the world through each others eyes — differences abound in a strong marriage acceptance.
I related to your poem especially to sitting in my own chair at night while my husband has his chair — many times no words shared but just a realization we are OK! Thanks
May 30th, 2012 at 2:43 am
A lovely tribute to true love…getting under each other’s skin..peering at the world thru another’s eyes. love it!
May 30th, 2012 at 10:47 am
This is so good and I know the power of the chairs…
Anna :o]
May 30th, 2012 at 12:42 pm
Poignant, almost heartbreaking. I love the picture and I know it. What a brilliant way you express that tenderness that is at the heart of a marriage. Life is written here in the observed details.
May 30th, 2012 at 1:30 pm
This is just lovely! Warm, honest & intimate…a slice of life in a poem…beautiful! 🙂
May 30th, 2012 at 2:41 pm
Love everything about this; the photo, the heat, the idea and the poem. Love the switching of chairs to see from the other partner’s point of view, and then the silent, sturdy chairs that witness everything. Perhaps my fave of OLN this week.
May 31st, 2012 at 12:58 am
oh my goodness, blows me away. Going to sit in the H’s chair.
June 7th, 2012 at 7:56 am
What a great poem!
I host a weekly creative party called Inspire Me Monday! I would love for you to share your poem with us!
The current link is open all week, and the new one opens on Sunday night!
Have a fabulous week and continue to:
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